Its been six years today since me and S have been together. Time flies.. it really does. So many things happened. Right from telling our parents about us, then engagement, the eventful wedding, more eventful life after marriage...
I still remember the day 6 years ago. I dont think anyone would believe, but the proposal happened in the most unromantic way!!
We had become good friends over the six months friendship we had. Simultaneously, we both knew for a long time that this friendship we had will go a step ahead. And on the seventh day of January 2002, S expressed his feelings to me
'over an email!!!' Yes!! over an email.. Well, i was so excited that i even replied back 'by email!!' n then we talked, 'over phone!!'
Well, this might not have been the case with most of the people i suppose, where the two people never actually met on the day when the guy proposed the girl, even though they were seperated by a distance of 15 minutes!!
But still, i am happy cauz we were different in our own way!! :)
Years passed, and at a point we had even decided to break our relation for good! and we had decided to do it not because of any flaws or misunderstandings between us, but because of some external but important factors in our life who had unknowingly created so many issues, that we had to decide on such a disaster!
Disaster, it would have been, if we would have been seperated, if in the end we had not decided to stay together and fight. i cant imagine my life without S.
After marriage too he has been so supportive and understanding.. always taking care that i am not hurt in anyway. Always so enthusiastic, so caring...
And mostly, his trust on me which was not diluted even a bit inspite of a sadist female trying to shake it from its soul foundation...
I am so proud of him. His achievements. His capacity to forgive and forget. His patience.. and his strength to put up with a difficult person like me for 6 long years!
When i look back at these years, there are no regrets at anything what has happened in the past. We both believed and still believe in the sentence 'whatever happens, happens for the best' or rather, 'you have to make the best out of whatever has happened with you!'
And this fact, has helped us fight the most complicated problems which we had to face. And i would not been able to get thru a single one without S!
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